Visualizing how you can start talking to a BBW you are interested in can be a stressful experience. To start a conversation with a total stranger could make you so nervous that you start doing irritating things. You could be in a bad cycle of behavior until you finally get to where you are feeling more comfortable and close with your crush. Are you feeling too shy to start talking to a BBW? Are you afraid of her size making you look too small by comparison to even think of approaching her? You have nothing to worry about, because on this page, you’ll be taught how to chat with and relate to a BBW in a natural, friendly, and successful way. The question is:
How Can You Start Chatting Successfully With a BBW?
Before you can talk to any BBW offline or online, it is very important to do serious rehearsal and revision of what you want to say. Online, you can still practice as though you are going to meet her face to face. The major key that gives you success in chatting with your partner is perfect preparation.
- Serious Preparation
Just like every other activities in life, it is very essential to make thorough preparation of everything you might talk about with a BBW. It is not just for opening speech and small talk, but every other conversation you might have with the woman. Starting a chat with a BBW is just like preparing yourself for debate in the classroom. Have a deep and serious think about the issue of the topic. Remember that an unexpected sentence or word could throw you off-balance if you don’t take care.
Get yourself prepared as you do some research on her. Do not waste much time on memorizing what you want to say, because that could make you look like an actor that is just reciting a play script. If you continue like that, you will discover that you’ll come across as a pretender. Before you know it, the BBW will change the topic on you to the extent that you will not be flexible enough to change with it.
So if you do not know anything about the BBW, just list some options and general topics to chat about.
- With Your BBW, A First Impression Goes A Long Way
How you present yourself to your BBW for the first time matters most; so let the first impression be a happy one, and smile. Try to be as friendly as you can, so as to make contact. When you meet with her, ask her if you can sit down as this is one of the best ways to start talking. Also, you can ask for her permission to buy her a drink, whether it is an alcoholic beverage or coffee.
- Apply Complements
Make use of genuine complements because they are timeless. Your approach should depend on what you are going to say. If the complement is about her features, make sure you keep your eyes fixed on her face. If it is about how she is dressed, let her know how elegant she is by complementing that the dress is a nice one and you like to see her in it. Anything she has on that you want to make complement about, make sure that you focus on it and not on her in particular. Try to avoid only using the word “nice”. You can use some other words that have colorful, passionate meanings. Do not complement her too frequently. Too much of that could make you look fake. Keep your complements to the beginning, middle, and end. Avoid repetition of complements except possibly later in the evening when telling her that, “I cannot get over your stunning looks ever since we met this morning. You are such a wonderful woman that always leave an indelible experience in a man’s life.” If your BBW knows that you like her smiling, she will definitely keep her smile because she will want to make you feel happy at all times.
- Looking at Your BBW Eye to Eye Can Make You or Ruin You
Making eye contact, eye to eye, plays a crucial role if you want to start chatting with a BBW. Eyes speak so much, and intentions can be easily communicated with a look. By doing this, you can win half of the battle. With an eye-to-eye look, you can easily build a trust, show boldness and let her know that you are highly interested in her. Do not look elsewhere. Always remember that when your eye is roaming around when it supposed to be fixed on your BBW, it shows that you are thinking of something else, or you have another BBW whom you are interested in the same area.
- Look Natural in Your Approach
Hugging your BBW for the first time may not be easy, unless she is the one to instigate it. Just a simple, fast and warm handshake is a good start. Placing your second hand over her hand will create some intimacy. If you are meeting in a public setting, ask her to sit where you can chat with her closely. Be a gentleman and hold her chair out for her. Stay relaxed and do not look worried. Always try to hold her attention with positive interest. Some BBWs may have had bad experiences with dating. So when you’re dealing with them, show sincerity, and let her know that you truly have a genuine interest in her.
